I was so over waiting.
I spent nearly half the day making sure that everything was done to perfection.
There was no way I was going let my time and effort go to waste.
I poked the golden cake with my fork for the 3rd time in the last 15 minutes.
It’s still not ready.
Ladies. This one is for you.
If I just stick it out, maybe he’ll change…
Ugh. There are way too many memories to just leave…
He’ll never come back. He’s way too prideful for that..
Or the worst one of all…
What if he moves on?
No one ever wants to let go. Ever.
There’s just so much at stake. Too much time and effort was put in to just…walk away.
Plus, he keeps hitting you up. You can’t just block him, right?
You’ve wrestled with getting this much attention and there’s no way we’re going all the way back to square one.
He’s not ready.
I hate to break it to you. But just like the cake, he’s still needs time transform into the potential you see in him. And to be honest, it looks like you’re getting in the way of what God is trying to complete in him. Get out the way, go love yourself, and trust God during the process, no matter how difficult it is.
Sometimes things need to die in order to live again.
I know this sounds completely insane. But trust me on this one. Accepting his minor efforts to keep you is only enabling him to do the bare minimum. And, I’m sorry girlfriend – but that’s the most that you’ll get out of him if you don’t walk away.
If you want any chance of this working in the future, let him go.
Letting him go doesn’t mean it’s over.
It doesn’t mean it isn’t either. Letting go means you trust God enough to teach your man what you can’t. There are only two things that could happen as a result – and you must come to closure both.
He will either:
- Walk away and never look back. He’ll continue his search for whatever he’s looking for and maybe coexisting and wishing him the best is what you have to do.
2. Maybe he’ll come back. You gave him enough time to grow. You gave him enough time to think. You gave him enough time to be human. And most of all, you gave God enough time with him.
And the cherry on top? He’ll be back and better than ever.
The more you micromanage and interrupt the cake’s process to bake, the more you’re going to have to wait. Don’t be afraid to walk away. Sometimes the best thing you can do for a man is let him go and let him see what life is without you.
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98% of you reading currently feel inspired and agree that you probably should leave what’s his face alone for a while.
But the truth is – you know you’re not.
He’ll probably text you and you’ll go back. And I understand.
He’s keeps giving you hope and dragging you into his cycle of uncertainty.
But one day you will become completely powerless. You’ll be over it.
Here is where the other 2% live.
You’ll finally realize you deserve more than the bare minimum and the games he plays.
You’ll realize that good girls are on high demand.
When this day comes, my dear, the game changes forever.